Life Musings

Set your eyes . . .

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It’s been a while, but I’m back! I don’t know about you, but I always find the start of the new school year consumes an awful amount of time and energy and contains a lot of apprehension about the unknown. It’s about now (almost four weeks in), that I feel I can exhale and then draw a deep breath in, setting my shoulders towards what I now know this school year will look like.

Starting school again after the long holidays is like changing the course of a huge sailing ship which has caught the winds of freedom and now has to be turned back around with great effort and set on a more structured path steaming towards the goals of the new year.

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One thing that really stood out to me over the holiday break was the failings of our life here on earth (perfection is just not attainable here) and the need to set my eyes on heavenly things. The water above looks perfect, but lurking just below the surface was a whole army of stingers, menacing with their long stringy black tentacles. As beautiful as it looks, swimming here was like running knowingly through a swarm of bees and just as painful!

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My earlier reminder of the need to store up treasures in heaven, rather than here on earth came from our Christmas tree. Here it is above, looking PERFECT. In fact, it was the most perfect looking Christmas tree we have ever had! (we hauled it all the way back from a farm in Wanneroo after a weekend escape to see U2 in concert). Fast forward a week or two and a bout of particularly hot weather (some of it while we were away), saw us return to a tree that was drooping at the top and starting to go crispy. Zoom in on the photos below and you will see!

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Now that we’re back to real life and reality, I’ve some exciting things to share with you in the next few weeks – all the details of our annual Valentine’s Day breakfast and  all the fun of Harriet’s French birthday party. Stay tuned!

Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. Matthew 6:19-21

 

Life Musings

Disappointment and persevering on . . .

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Why is disappointment such a difficult emotion to deal with? And why when it strikes one of our children does the feeling seem to be magnified for us as parents?

During the past week my daughter suffered a considerable disappointment, and although this was not connected to anything life threatening or majorly life changing, nevertheless it was keenly felt.  My heart really ached for her! Everytime I brought the circumstance to mind the pain felt physical, like a really ouchy sore. I guess Solomon really knew what he was talking about when he wrote : Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life (Proverbs 13:12). He was giving a voice to the ache of the soul.

What to do when disappointment strikes? I think it is important to acknowledge the emotion and “nurse” it for a time. It is ok to wallow in it for a little while, to really feel the emotion. But, we can’t stay here forever, or even for too long.  “Weeping may last through the night, but joy comes with the morning”. (Psalm 30:5) Even though we may not feel joyful, we choose joy, so as not to let our disappointment rule over us. When your dreams meet reality, choose hope.

I was really proud of my daughter. Yes, she was really upset and there were lots of tears, but she didn’t mope around for long. She dusted herself off and continued on with dedication and commitment, despite lacking fulfilment of her hopes and dreams. But do you know what? She still has hope for something bigger and better in the future. And the suffering and disappointment? I’m sure it has been really character building and I trust just what she needed in this moment for her growth and development of humility.

We also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance, perseverance character; and character, hope. Romans 5:3-4

 

 

Travel

Camping

725F8B3E-8845-4BBB-B23C-356593E44158It’s the summer holidays and many of us will be hitting the road and heading away for a well earned break. When I was growing up we spent most of our holidays camping.  This was a great way to get away without breaking the budget, although Dad always said that he couldn’t see why he should spend his holidays as well as his working life in the heat, dust and flies! As a child I also craved life on the other side of the fence – a week or two in a swanky hotel would have done quite nicely. I was, however aware that there were two sides to the divide – some friends escaped their parents hotel to spend some nights camping with us. To them it was an exciting adventure and an experience they had never had the chance to enjoy before.

Fast forward many years (after having had my fill of hotel stays), I have once again returned to camping and have been appreciating all it has to offer. Earlier this year we set off on an adventure to the Kimberley region of Western Australia, a region both beautiful and ruggedly isolated. Camping has much to teach me and my children.

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When your everyday is reduced to attempts at survival (food and water needing to be found from sometimes unreliable sources), erecting your own shelter and pitting yourself against the environment (and sometimes it is the environment that wins), other less pressing demands fade into insignificance. Your mind and body by necessity must focus on survival, thus pushing aside other worries that take up so much thought space in your other life. Very cathartic! You gain perspective as you realise that many of the things you focus on and worry about in your everyday world are not the main theme to your life.

You must also push perfectionism aside, and learn to embrace the environment of dirt, dust and insects. It is not worth fighting a battle you will surely lose! You also learn to make do with what you have, as supplies and luxuries (even sometimes neccessities) are not easy to source out here. Put in this environment people become much friendlier – you are united in a common theme of attempted triumph over the elements. Camping is the great social leveller. You also gain a small understanding of the primary producers’ battle against the environment.

Just as adults have much to learn, so too do kids. Some important lessons come from the value of team work to set up and dismantle a camp and the need to conserve resources so readily available at home, but not on tap out here in the wilderness. Adults and kids alike gain appreciation of the vastness of this great country of ours and the magnificence of the Creator.

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