Easter

Stellar the Stealth Bunny

E640BF02-AEE1-4238-904E-0481C3A99CEAAs Easter’s not far away, I thought I’d post about our beautiful rabbit, Stellar (short for Interstellar, named by my son Atticus, pictured above). Stellar was given to us by some friends and came to join our family approximately one year ago. When she first joined us she lived in a cage and was regularly cuddled, mainly by Atticus, but also by the other kids too. Having spent my childhood seeing wild rabbits running free, I just couldn’t bring myself to keep her in the cage for too long.

Prior to Stellar arriving, we had another much loved bunny, called Pawprint who free ranged in our yard, after spending her earliest days in a cage. She was the perfect pet, much like a little dog in friendliness, but without all the work! We knew free ranging could also work for Stellar, but the complicating factor was that a very cheeky puppy called Popcorn had also joined our family in the meantime. So it was with some trepidation, that we let Stellar out of her cage to free range in the back yard and to contend with Popcorn.

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A sneaky photo taken through the window of Popcorn watching Stellar

So far so good! Popcorn hasn’t eaten Stellar and I have high hopes the two of them could become friends once Popcorn grows out of his crazy puppy ways. In the meantime, Stellar has developed some stealthy habits! She inhabits Pawprint’s old burrow under the cubby house and comes out in the early mornings to frolic and feed on the lawn, very carefully watched by Popcorn who hangs back near the house and trembles, hopefully with fear and not anticipation! We watch from afar, because if we go outside Popcorn gains confidence and chases Stellar back into her burrow!

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Pawprint at Easter a few years ago (Instructions to make fabric eggs here)

All this begs the question, what do rabbits have to do with Easter? Well, not a lot, apart from their association with new life because of their prolific breeding habits! It’s not about rabbits, but it is all about new life.

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16

Travel

Mandurah Travelogue

Last weekend we bundled everyone into the car and headed south for Portia to compete in the Country Pennants Swimming Competition in Mandurah. I felt a bit ho-hum about staying in Mandurah, only because I have always viewed it as missing out on the benefits of being situated truly in the country or truly in the city. I’m happy to report that it was a lovely place to spend the weekend. Below are some of the highlights from the things we managed to fit in around the swimming races at the Mandurah Aquatic and Recreation Centre.

Food, glorious food! Where would we be without it? It always figures highly on our agenda (maybe a bit too highly at times!), so we were thrilled to discover an amazing cafe on the foreshore called Flics Kitchen. We had dinner there to celebrate our wedding anniversary on Saturday evening and liked it so much, we returned for breakfast on Monday before we left. The food was contemporary, completely innovative, scrumptious and good value for money. We had the chef’s choice for $50 a person, which consisted of approximately six stand out dishes of beautifully fresh, well seasoned food with some amazing and clever flavour combinations. Our favourite dish was Flic’s roast chicken, dill tots, summer vegetables, smoked bacon butter, wild herbs and chicken crackling. Delicious! Another favourite was Exmouth king prawns, camarelised orange, confit kipler potato, pancetta, heirloom radish and vanilla bean dressing. Worth a visit to Mandurah just to dine here alone!

FA878E78-2907-4E20-A74A-B8F59F2F88E9Another great local business to visit was Paper Planes Co. This shop has a beautifully curated collection of wares, mainly for children, but adults would love this collection too. It has toys and trinkets that I hadn’t previously seen anywhere else and a very patient, tolerant owner who was happy to let the kids experiment with the toys and read the beautiful books on offer. Also popular with the kids, was the Whizzpop Candy Store with its large collection of imported cavity inducing treats. The foreshore is beautiful for a stroll (we saw dolphins jumping out of the water) and the area is enlivened with some beautiful street art.

There is also a very cute little train which does a continuous loop along the foreshore. It was like reliving your childhood!

B79287F4-C82C-4FCD-9E71-E407FAE4A634We spent a very short time in Mandurah and only just scraped the surface of some of it’s attractions, but it was a very pleasant experience and definitely worth a visit or a detour to browse Paper Planes Co or to dine at the delightful Flics Kitchen. We stayed at the Quest apartments (easy walking distance into town) and really enjoyed their swimming pool right on the canal, as well as the lush gardens.

93B27A2C-F38F-43B7-96AA-97BD3110FE51Have you visited Mandurah before? Did you enjoy it?

Kid’s Parties

For the love of a good party

89114F56-6174-41A3-8142-802EBA255A24I remember this party so well! I’m on the far left and Mum is cutting the cake. I love the look of joy and anticipation on my face (and on some of my friends’ faces). I have photos of my kids, capturing this same look at birthday cake cutting time – it’s a special moment.  This party had a circus theme and was complete with sideshow alley stalls and a toffee apple and popcorn seller. I remember thinking the circus carousel cake was absolutely magical. My Mum is one of the best party planners I know and has been my greatest inspiration for hosting events.

D3C18FBC-EC5B-45A1-8250-FC855C26D1B0Mum wrote up all her parties in her scrapbooks and I loved reading them as a child, just as I still do now. The party written about above was another birthday for me with a Wind in the Willows theme. I was given (and still have) a Wind in the Willows cookbook and a lot of the party food came from there.

F7F88730-6AF2-4421-820E-E4FB665C1581Another book which really sparked my imagination growing up, and set me on a path of joyful party planning was Mum’s copy of The Australian Hostess Cookbook. I was fascinated by the descriptions of actual events the contributors to the book had hosted all over Australia – some on far flung stations in the outback and some in city locations. The descriptions of how these parties were hosted, what the host and guests wore and the menus, is today a really interesting historical reflection of this era.

When I went to boarding school at age twelve my growing collection of cookbooks came with me. I remember reading them as bedtime stories, planning dishes to make on my next trip back to the farm for holidays. Do you have events, books or special people who have inspired you?

 

Life Musings

Five ways to keep your volunteers happy . . .

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Volunteers are a vital part of many organisations, so looking after their happiness is important.  Looking after them well increases their willingness to serve and  contributes to their longevity in the organisation. Happy volunteers can really improve the health of your core business.

I’ve been a volunteer on numerous boards for the past twenty or so years and have put together some tips from my experience on ways to help keep your board volunteers happy:

  1. Provide good support to enable your board members to easily partake in meetings. This at the very least should mean that all documents required to be analysed or commented on at the meeting (and particularly those hard to read online, such as detailed financial statements), be printed out and accessible during the meeting. If you have the funds, it is a bonus if you can supply each board member with an iPad.
  2. Make sure your meetings are at times each board member can easily attend. Just as you would not schedule a board meeting during the work day for professionals (unless it is convenient to hold it over a lunch break), be mindful of scheduling meetings during the dinner/bedtime hour for parents of young children.
  3. Find out when your volunteers will be on holidays and endeavour not to contact them during this time, unless it is an emergency. Just as you would not contact an employee during their holidays, the same courtesy should be extended to your volunteers.
  4. Provide secretarial and administrative backup to your board members, so tasks they need to carry out on behalf of the organisation can be easily accomplished. This will free your board members up to be more productive and mean the bulk of their time is spent on governance, rather than administration.
  5. Last, but not least, provide food and refreshments at your meetings, particularly if they are over lunch time or dinner.

What has been your experience as a volunteer, or would you like to be one? Have there been any barriers to your participation?

Kid’s Parties

Sparkle wherever you go . . .

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Harriet turned seven in January and we celebrated with a belated unicorn party last weekend. I must confess it’s not my favourite theme – unicorns pooping out rainbows and the like aren’t really my thing, but maybe I’m just boring! Nevertheless, a great time was had by all. I was pretty scared of making the requested unicorn cake. Whenever I’ve seen one, they always look resplendent in their simplicity, but I knew this was probably deceptive. I was, however, thrilled with the result after using this tutorial.

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I enlisted the help of my eldest daughter, Portia (who spent a lot of the holidays perfecting her slime recipe) to make slime with each of the girls at the party. She used this recipe, which seems to work every time. The girls loved it! We glued some plastics unicorns to the top of jars for the girls to take home along with a party box made with this free printable. The party boxes contained a packet of unicorn tissues, a unicorn notebook with stickers and an oversized rainbow lollipop.

521633AE-2AC3-41C0-AA34-8A6CD95E36FDThe party food consisted of freakshakes (very fun to make) with a free printable unicorn straw from here, strawberries dipped in candy melts with assorted sprinkles, unicorn horns (recipe here), unicorn poop cupcake cones (recipe here) and unicorn popcorn.

For decorations I used this tutorial to make glitter dipped balloons which hung above the table and scattered some oversized paper confetti along the table. I also glued some black cardboard unicorn eyes on an Ikea container to hold the flowers (which my husband gave me for Valentine’s Day a few days earlier). The girls spent their time eating, making slime, playing pass the parcel, hitting the piñata and playing outside. It was the most calm and peaceful party I’ve ever hosted at my house, maybe because it was a small party with all girls, or maybe because we had Pink Fluffy Unicorns Dancing on Rainbows by Andrew Huang on repeat for the entire party!

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Time now to continue vacuuming up my house filled with sprinkles and sparkles! What about you?  Do you like unicorns?

Life Musings

Disappointment and persevering on . . .

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Why is disappointment such a difficult emotion to deal with? And why when it strikes one of our children does the feeling seem to be magnified for us as parents?

During the past week my daughter suffered a considerable disappointment, and although this was not connected to anything life threatening or majorly life changing, nevertheless it was keenly felt.  My heart really ached for her! Everytime I brought the circumstance to mind the pain felt physical, like a really ouchy sore. I guess Solomon really knew what he was talking about when he wrote : Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life (Proverbs 13:12). He was giving a voice to the ache of the soul.

What to do when disappointment strikes? I think it is important to acknowledge the emotion and “nurse” it for a time. It is ok to wallow in it for a little while, to really feel the emotion. But, we can’t stay here forever, or even for too long.  “Weeping may last through the night, but joy comes with the morning”. (Psalm 30:5) Even though we may not feel joyful, we choose joy, so as not to let our disappointment rule over us. When your dreams meet reality, choose hope.

I was really proud of my daughter. Yes, she was really upset and there were lots of tears, but she didn’t mope around for long. She dusted herself off and continued on with dedication and commitment, despite lacking fulfilment of her hopes and dreams. But do you know what? She still has hope for something bigger and better in the future. And the suffering and disappointment? I’m sure it has been really character building and I trust just what she needed in this moment for her growth and development of humility.

We also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance, perseverance character; and character, hope. Romans 5:3-4

 

 

Entertaining

Five ways to make an everyday meal special

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Yesterday  was that special day that many of us love to hate, although I suspect deep down there lingers in most of us at least a little appreciation for it, as who could not like a day that celebrates LOVE! I do like to celebrate Valentine’s Day (and am glad that my husband does too) and I usually include my kids in the celebration in some kind of low key way.

Here are five tips for making an everyday meal special (such as breakfast on Valentine’s Day – pictured above) :

  • Find a tablecloth, or a length of fabric, a sheet or a sari, anything really will do to dress your table (the lace tablecloth above was handed down from my grandmother and always reminds me of all the wonderful meals she cooked). Also use some table napkins. I usually keep a few packets in my cupboard for special occasions , although you can also use vintage handkerchiefs or cloth ones. They always look very festive fanned out in glasses on the table;
  • Light a candle – this really adds to the atmosphere and kids especially get a kick out of dining by candlelight. Put on some music. It’s easy to find themed music or a playlist to set the scene for your meal.
  • Find some props to put on the table. Flowers or arrangements of foliage from your garden are always lovely, but you could also add shells, driftwood, ornaments or a tiny present at each place setting (like the tiny heart soaps and chocolates used here);
  • Use your special glasses, crockery and cutlery – don’t let them sit in the cupboard gathering dust.
  • Buy some treat food, that you don’t have every day. This breakfast was special (and easy) as we had croissants and juice.

Dawn love is silver, Wait for the west: Old love is gold love – Old love is best.

Katharine Lee Bates 1859-1929

 

 

Kid’s Parties

Paddington breakfast

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I’m currently in the midst of preparing for a unicorn party for Harriet’s seventh birthday (more about that in a later post), but in the meantime I thought I’d share the photo from her birthday breakfast.

We saw Paddington 2 at the movies over the school holidays and fell in love with it! Paddington Bear was on the top of Harriet’s birthday list, so this inspired me to put a Paddington inspired breakfast together for before we dashed off to swimming lessons. It was very quick and simple to do.

I used a length of British flag material I had purchased a few years ago for my Anglophile husband’s English birthday dinner as the tablecloth, found some old London inspired toys the kids had as toddlers and used this printable to make some party bags for the table. One of the presents was a replica of the pop up book from the movie.

We really should have had marmalade sandwiches for breakfast, but instead we feasted on waffles!

Life Musings

I love trees

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Mt Frankland National Park

Continue reading “I love trees”

Entertaining

Dîner en Blanc

During the school holidays we were shopping in Pavement when some white dresses on the sale rack caught my husband, Murray’s eye. Harriet and Portia were excited to try them on and they looked stunning! Murray decided to buy them, but the next question was where to wear them? We didn’t have any special occasions coming up, so we decided to create one!

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The girls (with their cute cousin, Jude), wearing their new dresses which inspired the dinner

A few years ago I had been excited to read about the concept of Dîner en Blanc, which began in Paris in 1988. Francois Pasquier started the idea when he invited a group of friends to an outdoor dinner, asking them to all wear white, so they could easily recognise each other. The phenomenon has now spread to over seventy cities (including Perth) with more than 100,000 annual guests. The tradition involves guests dressing in head-to-toe white and bringing their own gourmet meals, tables, white chairs, table linen and tableware to a location kept secret until the last minute.

I would love to attend an official Dîner en Blanc one day, but logistics mean that this will most likely be sometime in the future. In the meantime we decided to put together our own version with a few more relaxed rules! We had the dinner in our outdoor lounge area complete with festoon lights bought especially for the occasion. The lights certainly added to the festive atmosphere and there may have been a few shenanigans at the table, such as phantom comic reading by the kids and tree house climbing in the boring bits!

The meal started with a prosciutto and papaya salad (papaya and prosciutto drizzled with olive oil, red wine vinegar, orange juice and topped with basil leaves) and then moved onto spring lamb with peas, feta and pine nuts, accompanied by haaselback roast potatoes. For dessert we had blackberry jelly with honey ice cream.  This was a huge hit!

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For drinks, I served a pomegranate grapefruit paloma from one of my favourite cooking sites, Smitten Kitchen. The kids had the same drink, except of course without the tequila!

This event was easy to plan and because I kept the menu simple, easy to prepare. Hopefully you feel inspired to plan your own Dîner en Blanc one day!

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Even the very naughty and cheeky puppy Popcorn got to attend the dinner briefly!